Brian called me from work yesterday morning. this is pretty much how the conversation went:
Brian: So, what do you want to do tomorrow?
Me: Tomorrow?
Brian: Yeah.
Me: Oh! It’s Valentine’s Day.
Brian: Yeah.
Me: Do you really care about Valentine’s Day?
Brian: Not really.
Me: Good. Neither do I.
Valentines schmalentines. this day was a lot more important to me when Brian and i first started dating. now that we’ve been together for over 6 years, it just isn’t a priority. do other married couples or people in long-term relationships feel this way? i mean, we’re secure about where each of us stands in the other’s life, so there doesn’t seem to be any reason to exchange gifts to prove it.
i don’t dislike flowers–in fact i love fresh flowers. the problem is, so do the cats. a couple of weeks ago i told Brian that if he plans on buying me flowers, he would do better buying me a Star Wars LEGO set, instead.
at any rate, we’re going to watch tonight’s episode of The Inspector Lynley Mysteries, and have pot roast slow-cooked (read: crock pot) with giardiniera peppers and a merlot for dinner. the merlot will be served in coffee mugs. i’m not even sure that we own wine glasses, and the regular glasses are all boxed up because we drink out of pop cans and bottles of water. the cats drink from our glasses when we aren’t looking. maybe it sounds ridiculous to other people, but this scenario clearly states: Brian and Barb.
Happy Valentine’s Day!